We have seen many famous people fall from high places. Tiger Woods, Charlie Sheen, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Lindsay Lohan, John and Kate plus 8, Paris Hilton, Ben Roethlisberger, Michael Vick, and politicians with extramarital or unethical wrongdoing. It’s so tempting, so easy … at times it even feels like harmless fun to look down on and judge these once mighty people. Kick them while they’re down and rub salt in their wounds.
I’ve been guilty of falling into this trap myself, making callous comments and assuming I am better than some fallen person because I am in a better place at that moment. We all have skeletons in our closets, insecurities and shameful mistakes we’ve made. To make ourselves feel better we look down on others instead of raising our level of play.
I have also felt the pain of being looked down upon … being judged by others, and as you know, there’s no fun in that. We often think that the person looking down on us is so mean for not taking time to understand the reasons we struggle. We also pledge, “I would never look down on someone like that.”
Looking down on others is drastically different than the more caring act of noticing someone’s difficulties and wanting to help them. Looking down on others really exhibits a survival of the fittest mentality … taking from someone for my advancement. This is the opposite of God’s system, which is based on love. Love means that those who are fit actually give, sacrifice, look out for others, and help people. Condemning is about pushing down, taking something from somebody, and isn’t consistent with God’s methods and plan for us.
Today, be mindful that we are called by God to be disciples, not judges. Be aware of looking down on others … for our Lord is the only one who could have looked down on you, but instead, loved you and gave His life. If you find yourself tempted to look down on someone, remember it is harmful to you and the other person, and it’s disrespectful to God. Your decision, so choose well.
Dear Father, I confess, Lord, that I have been guilty of judging others. I know I have fallen into this sinful pattern because it gives me the false perception that I am better than those I judge. I wrongly believe it takes the heat off me. Help me, Father, to live by your word to “judge not.”, Let me have compassion and love for those in my life who have done wrong. Instead of judging others, help me be a lighthouse to them in their time of need. Help me minister Your word so that I may comfort and guide them. Also Father, help me forgive those who judge me … and not give them authority over me by accepting their condemnation. In the name of the One who never looked down on anyone, Jesus Christ; and all God’s people say – AMEN!
Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?
Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things. But we know that the judgment of God is according to truth against those who practice such things. And do you think this, O man, you who judge those practicing such things, and doing the same, that you will escape the judgment of God?