Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self. Jesus himself entered into this furnace. There he was tempted with the three compulsions of the world: to be relevant (“turn stones into loaves”), to be spectacular (“throw yourself down”), and to be powerful (“I will give you all these kingdoms”). There he affirmed God as the only source of his identity. (“You must worship the Lord your God and serve him alone.”)
Solitude is the place of the great struggle and the great counter-the struggle against the compulsions of the false self, and the encounter with the loving God who offers himself as the substance of the new self…… Solitude is not a private therapeutic place. Rather, it is the place of conversion, the place where the old self dies and the new self is born, the place where the emergence of the new man and the new Woman occurs.
This is an excerpt from the book The Way of the Heart by Henri J M Nouwven. If you would like to buy this book please click here.