Recently, I was in the midst of a very hectic couple week stretch. The phone rang and my daughter’s boyfriend was on her phone telling me she was in an accident. My heart jumped … imagining the worst-case scenario and wondering why she wasn’t calling me herself. Thankfully, she was talking to the police and all involved were OK. But then came the many hassles of towing, totaling the car, dealing with expenses, having to find and deal for another car, and carpooling while being down one car. I thought I had the next several crazy weeks already planned out. So some of those agenda items got cancelled or moved to a later date.
How much time and energy do you spend fretting and worrying about things for tomorrow? … next week? … next year? What if you could lay out the blueprint of your life right now? Figured you’d love this option, right? Your life would be set, wouldn’t it? You in charge, calling all the shots, getting the life you desire.
Why then is the divorce rate around 50% … why is the lemon law necessary … why so many returns after Christmas … why do so many students transfer colleges, switch majors, or change jobs? All these are situations were ones in which we were able to select exactly what we wanted. We have almost no control of the future, even less knowledge of what’s to come, and a limited idea of what we really need in order to grow into a better person, to really achieve our God-given potential.
You see, it is our natural desire to want to be the authority, the king of our own life. We also live under the flesh-driven delusional that we know everything about ourselves, especially regarding what we need, and when we need it.
You know the drill. When you were 16 you thought you knew everything. Then at 20, you look back and realize you didn’t know much at 16, but now, at 20, you are a genius. Then at 30, you look back at 20 and realize you were in way over your head, but think 30 is where you are really wise. Well, at 48 I know I still don’t know much and am thankful God does. I try to let Him run my life, because when I was I charge, I was great at devising lame excuses to explain why life wasn’t going according to my plan.
Today, try to live one day at a time. Focus on living in “day-tight” compartments. Take what God brings you today and be great with it and grateful for it because it is the perfect gift for you from the perfect gift-giver, regardless of whether you think it is right for you. Don’t let tomorrow’s concerns seep into today. Today is all we can truly need, right now. You don’t need to return it … you can’t!!! Your decision, choose well.
Dear Father, I thank You for all Your blessings. I pray that You help me learn to accept the limitations of living one day at a time, trusting You with all my heart. Teach me, Lord, to release all worry and problems into Your care. Doing this brings beautiful simplicity to my life. I pray You will bring Your healing grace to my life and into the lives of those I love who suffer from sickness, fear, and wariness. I pray to You, my God, to help me live a life close to You. Contrary to how the world thinks of You, a life lived close to You is not complicated or cluttered. When I focus on Your presence within me, all things that were once troubling lose their power over me. The world around me is messy and very confusing. But I remember that You have already overcome this world so that I may have peace. I pray this in the name of the One who laid His life perfectly in Your loving hands, Jesus Christ; and all God’s children say – AMEN!
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.
And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.